What we’re up to… August 21, 2024 at 09:31AM

Today is the day we commit our beautiful boy to the ground. There aren’t words, really. This is a whole magnitude of difference between anticipated grief and living through it. The earth hasn’t stopped spinning, the sun is still rising and people are still doing what they do. We’ve been dealing with funeral organising, and thrown the mundane of logistics up against the grief that spills out… how are we here?

This feels impossible. Absurd. Unreal. Our boy has died. He DIED. And since then his body has slowly, gently been doing what dead bodies do. (This is absurd. How is he dead how is he dead how is he dead).

I’m meant to be sharing about Kai’s funeral, which is today. If you don’t have the streaming link, please send me a text via WhatsApp (+44 7770389467) and I’ll send it to you. It starts at 12:30pm, BST.

If you’d like to donate in Kai’s honour, you can donate here if you feel moved to:
https://ift.tt/9jmCqka

Thank to you to everyone who has donated – we appreciate you so much <3 The funeral starts around 12:30pm BST. You can work out the time conversion, here: https://savvytime.com/converter/bst/aug-21-2024/12-30pm (Moe mai rā our sweet boy, moe mai rā. We love you x) from Instagram: https://instagr.am/p/C-7OM_uow4o/